You know that cliche that whatever can go wrong will go wrong?

Just a single, thirty-something woman, trying to avoid disasters in the dating world.  And it isn’t easy!  When it comes to dating, there is never a dull moment, whether it’s funny, sweet or just downright scary, there is ALWAYS something to talk about.

Welcome to the good, the bad and the ugly in the world of dating!  (Not for the faint of heart!)

You can contact Murphy at According2Murph@optimum.net

Read more from Murphy at The Huffington Post – Becoming Fearless



7 thoughts on “About

  1. Absolutely love your blog

    Posted by chrissy | May 15, 2012, 1:14 AM
  2. I disagree. I find you interesting, and I think what Jess is interpreting as self-absorbed, is actually a writer being honest and looking at herself without prejudice, and then talking about it freely in the hopes that it may help others who could possible feel the same way.
    And sadly, you’re definitely not a whore;^)

    Posted by Woody | April 25, 2012, 9:06 AM
  3. I for one have read your blogs and can say that it is the most self absorbed, poorly written, sex in the city rip off I’ve ever read. You don’t know about men or relationships. Its a blog that is “poor me” when it reality you can’t act like a whore and then wonder why you get treated like one. I feel bad for the boyfriend you have now, I would tell him to run for the hills. You have issues girl, see a therapist instead of torturing people on the internet with your pathetic life.

    Posted by jess | April 24, 2012, 5:57 PM
    • I thought long and hard about whether or not to approve this comment. For obvious reasons. However, I believe that everyone has a right to their opinion and what I love about writing is the ability express our opinions with creativity, however small minded and rude. I also decided to approve it so that I could respond appropriately.

      Dear “Jess”,
      I would like to first thank you for reading. You said “blogs” which to me means you’ve read more than one post so something kept you reading and for that, I am thankful. And yes, my blog is about me and my experiences. Perhaps that makes me self-absorbed. At least when it comes to this blog. And yes, it is similarly themed to Sex and the City. Which, as you point out that it is poorly written, you should take note that Sex and the City should be not be in all lowercase letters. This leads me to believe that perhaps you are not someone I would count on for advice on how to be a good writer. I will stick to taking advice from the many industry professionals, one of whom just offered me some great exposure and a great writing opportunity based on my self-absorbed blog. Details to come. Perhaps there are entries that talk about hardships that I have experienced and I am so thankful to have an outlet such as this to use as my stress relief and sounding board. I have always wondered though why men can explore and enjoy their sexuality and that’s just boys being boys but when women do it, they’re called whores. And it’s always other women who attack. I think we should be supporting and embracing each other, not putting each other down. I have never once felt that I have behaved like a whore or been treated like a whore in any way. On the contrary, I have had some amazing men in my life, including the one I am with now. I will certainly pass along your concerns for his well being to him and your suggestion for him to run for the hills. As a matter of fact, we will be running to the hills together this weekend as we vacation in the mountains for my birthday. As I stated earlier, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and perhaps my blog isn’t quite your style. I suggest then that you don’t read it and find something that you do enjoy. As for torturing people on the internet with my pathetic life? I believe that the 200+ followers and the additional over a thousand hits a week my blog gets perhaps suggest that there are people who happen to quite enjoy this site. And my pathetic life? I have a truly beautiful and blessed life that I am thankful for every day. If my experiences have taught me anything it’s that life is too short to be so angry and full of hate. I hope that you yourself have something that makes you truly happy. I urge you to let go of the hate and anger in your life. I can not imagine lashing out on someone so harshly that I don’t even know. I may be a lot of things but judgmental isn’t one of them. I wish you the very best and thank you again for reading, however misguided your interpretations of my postings may have been.

      Best Wishes,


      Posted by Murphy's Law | April 24, 2012, 6:28 PM
  4. Check out the works of xxxxxx at xxxxxxxxx, she has a solid grasp on the fundamentals between the sexes. At the top of her home page she has Free Stuff, then click on Listen. This is information that will give you an edge, and a view behind the veil of men. Through this I would hope that you will succeed in all you dating adventures.

    Posted by Christopher Snell | April 22, 2012, 10:19 AM
    • If you had actually read my blog, you would see that I have been successful and have a pretty good edge on men myself. Please take a look around, enjoy the view. But please don’t use my blog as a way to promote someone else’s writing when you clearly haven’t taken the time to see what mine is even all about.

      Posted by Murphy's Law | April 22, 2012, 10:25 AM

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